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My Dad

March 10th, 2010

By far, my father has been the greatest influence in my life.
Perfect? No.
Humble enough to ask forgiveness when he isn’t perfect? Yes.
My dad, George “Bubba” Rose, Jr…

His passions? The man in the picture above loves Jesus. He is a student of the Bible, and has been since he was saved by the grace of God while at Appalachian State University back in the early 70’s. He lives each day to gain more insight into the heart of God. He lives each day to fight sin well and to glorify God much.

He loves my mother, Nedra. Never in my 30+ yrs of life have I seen any man love a woman the way my dad loves my mom. The only close second would be my grandfather (my dad’s dad), and the way he esteems my grandmother.

He loves his family. Everything my dad did in life–whether it be mowing the yard, going to the store, kicking a football miles into the sky–he did it with us. He has carried this into his relationship with my three kids, his grandkids. He When we get together it is as if I have four kids! He is such a family guy.

He loves good food and great fun. When trying to explain the personality of my father, I often will say that he is a man who laughs with his whole life. You are not with him for long until he lets out a jolly laugh that fills the room. Then you find yourself in laughter yourself! Also, each time he sits down to eat a meal (whether in Togo, India, Peru, or the U.S.), he will assure you that that particular meal is the “best I’ve ever eaten! EVER!!” That’s my dad.   :-)

The bottom line about this guys is that your are not with him for more than five minutes before he talks about Jesus Christ, Nedra Rose or his family. It is far from rare that he is moved to tears when talking about the aforementioned.

His love for me? I love this man because he loves me. I never, NEVER remember him ever belittling me or making me feel insignificant. My dad views every failure of mine (there have been many) as an opportunity to love me and encourage me in spite of my failure.

Even in times of discipline (there were many), he would say with tears in his eyes “Son, daddy loves you. I love you enough to tell you the truth. I love you enough to care how you live life. I am only doing this because I can’t help but love you. You are my son.
Also he would say, “Jeremy, there is nothing you could ever do that would ever make me love you anymore than I do right now. Son, there is nothing you could ever do that would ever make me stop loving you or begin loving you any less than I do right now.

It is easier for me to understand the love of God because I have Bubba Rose as my father. I pray that my children will be able to say the same thing for me.

The above mentioned isn’t necessarily just because my dad tried really hard to do this or to become that. The only reason my dad is the way he is is because of the grace of God. My dad constantly seeks to understand the gospel of Jesus Christ more clearly and deeply. As a result of the hunger for God that God Himself has placed in my father, my father is who he is. He is reliant upon the Holy Spirit to teach him how to act and why. Jesus has made a difference in my dad and as a result he has made a difference in me.

I love this man. Thank you, Jesus. Thanks dad.

photo courtesy of LuAnn Hunt Photography

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Chaos or Kingdom?

January 31st, 2010

This weekend the prancing city of Nashville has been crippled by our largest snowstorm in 7 years. Ambulances overturned, salt trucks lost control and slid off the roads, of course the multiple car crashes, and 3 mph commuters all played a part in our stories. Perhaps this all happened to allow us to see a little bit of the coming Kingdom—the Kingdom we are seeking to establish at The Axis Church. “Is Jeremy saying that Heaven will be full of chaos?”—hardly! I am speaking of the results of such a storm.

hillsledAs everything slowed down we were forced to relax—and have fun! We went to Sevier Park (12 Ave S) to go sledding. Of course we walked there—the four-wheel drive went out on my Suburban on Friday. Bummer! I had no idea what I would find when we crested the hill there at the park.

We saw people playing tackle football (hard for me to resist!), sledding, taking pictures, laughing, crashing into one another, wiping out, sharing equipment—it was so exciting! It was wonderful.

I loaded the kids on my snowboard (sitting, like on a sled) and down the hill they went—and fast! As I sent them on their way I wouldn’t simply watch them cruise into the creek and stonewall at the bottom of the hill; I ran as fast as I could along side of them. I ran to make sure they dodged trees, people, and of course the wall and creek! At just the right moment I would dive—arms outstretched—reaching for the bindings on my snowboard to pull them back towards safety. AHHHHHH! It was killer! I had so much fun—I can’t imagine that they had any more fun than I did. I loved it! We would roll in the snow together, the board would eventually stop and we would make our way back to the top of the hill.

Here is where the Divine Kingdom comes into play…

First, as I would take a break, I’d stand and look at the hundred or so people gathered together to slide down a hill. meboyssledThey used cardboard, large woks, poster frames, kid pools, wakeboards, surfboards, actual sleds (imagine that!), and even casket lids—that was very strange but highly effective and creative! They were all so very happy. No one was without a smile. Why?—the absence of work related stress and the presence of sheer, childlike pleasure. The people of Nashville had fun together, in community.
When I stood back I couldn’t help but think that Jesus was looking down upon us and grinning, ear to ear—watching us all get a small glimpse of the New World that He has prepared for us. I cannot wait!
Pray for this type of life to come quickly. Pray for us to allow Nashville to see just how wonderful Jesus is and just how much He loves and cares for them.
Thy Kingdom come!

Second, when I would help the kids have a wonderful but safe adventure on the snowboard, I was reminded of God’s providence and sovereignty. God is so magnificent that He allows us to have great adventures all within the control of His will. He loves us. He will never allow us to go so far that He is still not there in absolute control. He so desperately desires our happiness.
Oh that we would find our ultimate happiness in Him!

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My New Year’s Resolutions

December 31st, 2009

This year I am committing to a few things that I hope and pray will make me a better and more faithful Christ-Follower, husband, father, church planter and friend.

With new year’s resolutions, I try not to set myself up for failure. I aspire to things that are achievable with diligence, beneficial to my soul and those around me and practical in nature. So, here are my resolutions:

Resolution #1

Read the Bible in it’s entirety–the New Testament and Psalms both twice.Bible
As I do this (here is the unique part of this resolution) I will journal my thoughts, questions and commentary in the margins of the ESV Journaling Bible and then keep this for my oldest son, J.J.
I will save this for a special occasion (e.g., graduation, wedding, etc.) and then give it to him. It will be something that only I can do and no money can purchase this anywhere. I hope to do this for each of my three children. Ideally, I will do this in a new Bible each year.
Also I plan to do the same with Banner of Truth’s “The Valley of Vision.”

Resolution #2

Spend more time in extended sessions of prayer–listening more to the still, quite voice of the Spirit.
My soul longs for this but my schedule tries to kill this. I must do this.
As a part of this I want to learn more of the Holy Spirit and His work in my life.

Resolution #3

Be more intentional with my family time. I have grown so much in this area of my life. I cherish being a husband and a father. It is the coolest hobby in the world. Who knew that fatherhood could be (and must be) more fun than snowboarding, hunting, basketball or football?!?! I love it!
Well, here is detail for this resolution. I want to spend more quality time with my extended family this year. After seeing two grandparents admitted to nursing homes last week, Jill and I are experiencing the brevity of life. Our loved ones will not be here with us forever. So, I plan to capitalize on my family moments more this year than ever before.

Thanks for reading.
Grace and Peace.

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